How To Get Orgasms with A Rubber Butt Plug
1. Use lots of lube
Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubricant, so liberal application of lube is a must for optimum comfort and safety. For drawn-out anal play, regular lube top-ups are definitely a good idea."
Lube not only makes sex and play safer because it reduces the risk of injury, tearing and soreness, but it makes it feel way better too. Just make sure that if you're using a rubber butt plug, the lube you accompany it with is water-based. Silicone lube reacts badly with silicone toys, so always avoid using them together. Lube designed specifically for anal play tends to be thicker and longer-lasting, so you don't have to apply it so often.
2. Take it easy and go slowly
Like with any new sex stuff you're trying out, remember not to go in there all guns blazing. Start gently and slowly. It’s essential that you are relaxed to enjoy anal play.
Make sure you've spoken about your expectations and any concerns with your partner first, if you're trying a rubber butt plug during partnered sex for the first time. If you're going it alone, take your time. Start with a small toy, and gradually get acquainted with it and more comfortable. Insert it slowly and just sit there with it inside and see how it feels. Once you become comfortable (and aroused) you can graduate to a larger or more advanced toy.
3. Learn how to massage the prostate or P-spot
If you are using a butt plug with a penis haver, listen up. The prostate is an incredibly sensitive gland that feels especially satisfying when stroked, and it’s most easily located about two to three inches up on the anterior (front) wall of the anus. It’s true that some men and people with penises can experience an orgasm and/or ejaculation just from having their prostate stimulated, although it does take practice and patience. These orgasms are said to feel more intense than an orgasm from stimulation of the penis, causing the whole body to throb with climactic energy.
4. Enjoy the pressure
A rubber butt plug creates more pressure on the back vaginal wall, increasing the level of sensation a person experiences. Many people with vaginas also enjoy using a butt plug while receiving oral sex. At climax, orgasmic contractions around a butt plug can feel more intense than without, and stimulate the nerve endings around the anus that usually get overlooked.
So, even if you are a woman or vagina-having person, there are various ways you can enjoy a butt plug.
5. Using a butt plug for penetration with a partner (they can feel the difference too)
If someone with a vagina wears a butt plug, their partner may also notice a difference in sensation if they're penetrating them. By inserting a butt plug, the amount of space in the pelvis is reduced, and as a result the vagina feels tighter and more textured. So whether your partner has a penis, or is stimulating your vagina with their fingers, they'll probs notice you feel a little different.

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